I'm curious as to what shopping cart software or programs you folks have used or recommend. I'm looking for something fairly easy and can be used with paypal. I would also like the setup ease of selling on Ebay without the fees that Ebay charges.......... Any suggestions!

I use Paypal's.  I also use Square for accepting credit cards on the spot (you can also manually input the number, but the fees are a little higher.

What I like is paypal because creditcard aren't that common here. If I order something from America I can only order it when they use paypal. And I have to say that not than many use paypal also.
Maybe this will help you ....